Understanding what energy your words are expelling into the atmosphere around you
Have you ever heard the phrase, "Sticks and stones will break my bones, but words can never hurt me?" Well, I'm sure we all have and it's true unless we take those words in.
"Your words give life to your Faith! Whatever you speak is what you move towards. Don't let your words push you away from what God has already promised to you!" - Coach Elise Marchelle
Understand, that whatever you give out to the world you keep.
Are you loving with your words?
I learned first hand from my parents how to tear one another down with words, and let's face it - we are creatures of habit...literally it's been proven. So learning what I saw and reenacting that into my adult relationships was a process of trial and error for me. I learned watching one toxic relationship after the next what not to do and unfortunately most of that was at the expense of hurting someone else.
We all try to be the best version of ourselves until we are angry. So after having hurt one loved one after another with words, I learned to transit my pain into purpose. I learned that the words that I vomit so easily in anger depending on my partner's love language created far more damage than ever intended.
When we say that we love someone whether a partner, family member, or even our friends our communication and actions towards them should always be in the same emotion - LOVE.
Learn to express your sadness in love, learn to express your disappointment in love, and learn to express your anger in love too - LOVE is the only thing that will heal your pain.
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